Smile: It is proven to soothe you. So put on a happy face, even if you are just going through the motions. :-)

Donate: Giving money to a good cause can make you feel better than buying something for yourself. It doesn't have to be a lot. Donating $5 will do wonders.

Eat All-Carb Whole Grains: Feeling grumpy? An all-carb whole grain snack should make you feel happier within a half hour. Carbs raise blood sugar which boosts serotonin, a neurotransmitter associated with calm, positive feelings. 30 g of carbs with can be 4 cups of air-popped popcorn or half of a whole wheat English muffin.

Garden: Studies show 30 minutes of gardening reduces stress levels more effectively than reading quietly.

Exhale: Deep breathing is important but try to focus on the exhale. When you elongate your exhale, it slows down your heart rate. So take three long exhalations, making them twice as long as your inhalation.

Raise Your Heart Rate: 2 minutes of exercise will change your mood, as long as you raise your heart rate. Try squats or jumping jacks!

Think Sensually: Next time you are stressed, doing something that feels good physically like taking a warm shower or listening to your favorite music.

Coffee with whole milk: Caffeine may promote a can-do attitude. Adding whole milk instead of fat free milk will make you feel more satiated and calmer.

Have some chocolate: The taste of sweetness causes a surge of good endorphins. Dark chocolate contains flavonoids which improve mental acuity and attitude. Small amounts of dark chocolate can also lower stress hormone levels.

Prevention.com. December 2012.

Sibling relationships make a significant impact on who our children become as adults. Make time to help foster sibling relationships and your relationship with each child individually.

• Encourage your children to work as a team. Maybe make a pizza together or recycle bottles and decide how the money is spent.

• Stop yourself if you try to micromanage their interactions. Let them build their own relationships away from you.
• If they start to fight, don't become the referee. Come up with ways they can work out their own arguments. One mother has them stand at their bedroom doorway and talk it out until they figure out a solution.
• Spend 1-on-1 time with each child. This says to the child that "We are a team, but you are unique and special."
• Take time to observe each of your children to truly understand their temperament and approach to the world. What really makes each of your children happy?
• Strive to meet a child's individual need when it arises. When one child is sick, make chicken soup for him and give him a back massage. This does not mean it's unfair that his sister doesn't get the same treatment.
  
• Never expect an older brother or sister to babysit without asking. It is our job to care for your children.

Reference: Doe, Mimi. Busy But Balanced. New York: St. Martin's Griffin, 2003.